The logic
The second world can only be borrowed
The question "did the coupon help?" really compares two worlds: one where the person got the coupon and one where they didn't. Nobody sees the second world; it can only be rebuilt on average from similar people who, at random, got no coupon. A control group is that borrowed second world.
Without it, it is easy to credit the coupon with purchases that would have happened anyway: "250 people got a coupon, 127 of them bought, so the coupon works". In fact without the coupon 150 of those 250 would have bought. The same trap lies in judging ads, medicines or training by those who got them without looking at those who didn't. How to set up a fair comparison is on the A/B test page.
Practice
Retention that drives people away, canvassing that backfires
Discount pop-ups are the everyday version of the puzzle: it is easiest to show them to people who already have something in the cart, and those are often the people who would buy without a discount.
The best-known sleeping dogs are in customer retention. A mobile operator calls the customers at highest risk of leaving, and the call reminds them that their contract has ended and they are free to go. Radcliffe and Surry (2011) describe a retention campaign after which churn rose from 9% to 10%. An uplift model found the 30% of customers on whom the call really worked; a campaign aimed only at them cut churn to under 8% and cost 70% less.
The same goes for election campaigns. Barack Obama's 2012 campaign, according to the journalist Sasha Issenberg (MIT Technology Review), gave voters a "persuasion score" from 0 to 10: how likely a conversation with a volunteer was to pull the person towards the candidate. The organisers warned outright that a conversation could also hurt the candidate.